Thank you :)

Thanks to everyone who came out and supported all our tellers last Thursday. We had old friends drop by to share new stories and new friends come by to share old stories. It was a joy for me to host.

Sometimes, the best stories are the ones that leave us wanting to know more. Thursday’s show was filled with stories like that. For instance, what did the dominatrix whisper to David as she sat in the back seat of his Uber? How did she know just what to say to make him so uncomfortable?! And how in the world does she make $400,000/year humiliating men over the internet while never taking her clothes off? More importantly, how can the rest of us get in on this? 

Bruce told a story that left me wondering if the father of his sweetheart from 51 years ago was an executive for Arrow shirts or a CIA field operative in Africa? Did they really just barely escape from an uprising in the Belgian Congo or was that just a cover story from something more nefarious? Sabra, a first-timer, told us about joining a Korean martial arts cult and what it took to finally leave. On the way home I realized I never found out what martial art they taught. Taekwondo? Hapkido? Tang Soo Do? Hwa Rang Do? Can you tell that I read Black Belt magazine religiously as a kid? I still remember all those names.

Paul, our second first-timer, told the story of escaping from communist Poland and what it was like to leave his family behind. I really wanted to sit down with Paul after the show and learn what it was like growing up in a place like that. Based on the purple shoes he was wearing that night, it looks like he’s completely embraced America.

One of our regulars, Renata, told a story about divorcing her first husband of 35 years and how it led to going on 80 online dates before finding the true man of her dreams…who she then revealed to the audience was Paul from Poland! Surprise! Yes, I secretly planned that. I asked Renata weeks ago to share that story and when she told me a few days ago that Paul was working on his own story I asked her to surprise the audience with the last-minute reveal. Paul from Poland was date #80. If you’d like to know more about dates 1-79 you can read the book she wrote called, “Around Seattle in 80 Dates.”

https://www.amazon.com/Around-Seattle-80-Dates-Journey/dp/1985371871/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=renata+lubinsky&qid=1571517320&sr=8-1

There are many more stories from that night I could go on about but I’ll let you get back to your lives. Big thanks to all the tellers who walked up to the microphone that night. I say every night at the start of each show, “Opinions separate us, and stories bring us together.” Thank you for bringing us all together that night.

Our next show is November 21. The theme is “Discovering something about yourself.” I’ll get the official invite out as soon as I can.

If you’re looking for help on a story, our next free monthly workshop is Nov 3. It’s run by two of our regular tellers who volunteer their time. Thank you, Dave and Chad! You can RSVP here: https://www.meetup.com/Fresh-Ground-Stories-Storytelling-Workshop/events/265468750/

Hope to see a bunch of you on the 21st 🙂

Paulfreshgroundstories@gmail.com

 

See you Thursday :)

Hi All,

I hope to see a bunch of you at the show this Thursday.
https://www.meetup.com/Fresh-Ground-Stories/events/265221096/

I also want to let you know about two proud FGS moments.

First, Susan Fee, one of our regular tellers, will be on The Moth podcast this Saturday (KUOW 94.9 at 1:00 pm). I think Susan is the second teller from FGS to be on The Moth. 

Second, Melissa Reaves, another FGS regular, just had her Ignite Seattle talk uploaded so everyone can see it. She told part of this story at FGS earlier this summer. Ignite Seattle is a great place to take the skills you learn from storytelling and use them to share ideas and experiences that need to be heard.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-ugdFgdAKc

I hope everyone is having a good week. See you Thursday!

Paul
freshgroundstories@gmail.com

FGS tellers up to great things

Hi All,

Just a quick email to let you know about some of the great things FGS tellers are up to this week.

  1. Two amazing women who have told at FGS are giving talks at Ignite Seattle this Thursday. Mary Purdy and Melissa Reaves will add their names to the list of other FGS tellers who have given talks there (Bill Bernat, Ginger Chien, Susan Fee). Click here to get tickets: https://igniteseattle.com/
  2. Susan Fee’s story about the mysterious Seattle bus driver known only as Care Bear Bonnie was was re-aired last week on KNKX’s Sound Effect. Catch it here if you want to hear the surprise ending that occurred in the studio during the recording: https://www.knkx.org/post/connection-sound-effect-episode-190
  3. The free FGS storytelling workshop is coming up this Sunday. It’s run by two of our regular tellers who donate their time and energy once a month to help others learn how to craft personal stories. It’s a great place to get gentle feedback on a story you’re working on. Click here for more info: https://www.meetup.com/Fresh-Ground-Stories-Storytelling-Workshop/events/264527648/

Hope everyone is having a great week 🙂

Paul
freshgroundstories@gmail.com

 

FGS: Au Revoir – Stories of walking away

I’ve run away from a lot of things in my life but I haven’t walked away from many. I guess that means I usually wait until it’s too late to exit gracefully. By the time I decide to leave a job, a town, a relationship, a belief system, it’s almost always long after I should have.

The few times I have walked away from something it’s often with a look over my shoulder and a feeling that maybe for once my timing is right. It’s a pretty rare feeling for me but I hope it’s not for you. This month, we’re looking for stories of walking away and moving on. You might have left a person, a job, a place, old convictions, almost anything. We’ve all left something or somebody sometime. Why did you leave? Was it a quiet so long or a cataclysmic goodbye? Maybe you even went back later on. Was it different the second time around? We’d love to hear the story.

Remember to keep it clean, and practice out loud as often as you can. All stories must be under 8 minutes. It can be as short as you want but not over 8 minutes. We’re getting more names in Mr. Coffee and some folks aren’t getting to share their story because we run out of time. Thanks for understanding.

Here are the rules and guidelines for telling: https://freshgroundstories.com/2013/01/22/storytelling-rules-and-guidelines/

I hope to see you all October 17th at 7 pm at the Olive Way Starbucks Feel free to email me if you have any questions

Paul
freshgroundstories@gmail.com

Thank you!

Thanks to everyone who came out to our first show of autumn. I don’t know if it’s the rising humidity or the soft thrumming of rain that brings out the most amazing stories. Whatever spell we were all under last week made for beautiful stories.

I want to offer extra-special thanks to the folks who brought all the first-timers who told that night. Every single first-time teller nailed their story. Thank you so much for the work you put into your writing and practicing. It was one of the strongest nights of new tellers I can remember.

Miriam, who’s been coming for years, finally told a story on the last show she’ll be attending because she’s moving to Miami. It was a sweet story of how a chance meeting in a coffee shop led to her being able to accept quitting grad school. I loved her story for a lot of reasons, but the main reason is that she reinforced my belief in the importance of sharing yourself with more than just friends and family.

Carol, another first-timer, shared another story about the power of strangers when she told us about having to navigate through Italy without speaking Italian. Did the first stranger she met really sell costumes to children? Who knows. It made sense at the time. And how did another man, who didn’t speak a word of English, know that she needed to go to Pisa? Did he walk up to every American in that train station and yell, “Pisa in macchina!” at them? Who knows. It makes me wonder if Italy is just a magical place where people show up right when you need them.

Sue, who is not a first-timer but a second-timer, told a great story about getting schooled by a couple of toddlers she was babysitting. You know you’re having a rough day when you hope the firefighters show up before the parents do. Thank you, Sue, for letting all the parents and babysitters in the audience know we aren’t the only ones who’ve been surprised by how much trouble a toddler can get in when you look away for a second. Story bonus: a number of people mentioned to me after the show how they loved the rhythm and cadence of her story. Everything was said just the way it needed to be said.

Nick, another first-timer, told a beautiful story about his Catholic mother lighting candles for all the people she wanted to protect. I know I wasn’t the only one in the audience that night who’d left their childhood religions. Hearing his story reminded me of all the old traditions of mine that are still inside me. Now that I’m older, I look back on them a little more fondly than I used to. Thank you Nick for reminding us that we can keep some of those old rituals and still be true to who we are today.

Pykasu, I am so glad you survived those years of diving in and out of cars. It was great to hear a story about the gumption of a 13-year-old and the kindness of strangers. We need to hear more of those. Thank you also for taking the time to craft that story. It wasn’t an easy story to figure out how to tell and the work you put into it really showed.

Kathy, whose husband was a first-timer last month, shared a story with one of my favorite lines. “I lift up mine eyes….” Those words have always struck a chord with me. I think it’s because, whether you’re an atheist, an agnostic, or a person of faith, we always seem to look up when we need help. Like Kathy, my mother was a missionary and often looked to the heavens to either ask for help or shake her fist in anger. I like to think the universe has a sense of humor and that’s why a cat burglar showed up out of nowhere to help you break into your car 🙂

Greg, your story went straight to my heart. I don’t often struggle to say something after a story but I struggled with yours. You had no idea when you began that story how much of it I shared with you. Thank you for having the courage to tell it. And thank you Melissa at Story Fruition for knowing Greg needed to tell it at FGS. (Melissa, by the way, did a great job opening the show with her cicada story. )

Chris, how is it that I’ve known you for years but never heard that story? Sometimes it’s nurses that heal us more than doctors. You met a special one that day who went out of her way to acknowledge what you were going through. Kindness is a medicine that continues to heal us long as we remember it.

Connie, I want you to know that I did some research and found out that Iceland does have an extradition treaty with the U.S. but they don’t always honor it. Lucky for you! I don’t know what the penalty for camping fraud is but it seems like they take it pretty seriously. Call me if you’re contacted by Iceland FBI. I know a safehouse you can stay at.

Maryanne told the most touching story I’ve ever heard her tell. The whole room was silent when she finished. Maryanne is that kind of teller. If you ever see her onstage at FGS, look behind you. You’ll see people who didn’t come for the show, putting down their phones and closing their laptops. That’s what you do when you hear Maryanne. You stop what you’re doing and listen because you’ve never heard anyone like her. I hope every single one of you starts going to Maryanne’s own show at the Olive Way Starbucks on the last Thursday of each month. Go see her tell live so I don’t have to try to explain her to you.

Vanda, an old friend of mine, closed the show with a powerful story of why we should hold our beliefs lightly so we can allow space for others to hold their own. What would happen if we all quietly added “maybe” to our convictions? Would the world seem a little safer? Would conversations seem a little less aggressive? I think they would. I’m going to try to use the word maybe more often and see if that helps me feel a little more hopeful for the future.

Before I let you go, I want to thank two final tellers, Kris and Roy. Kris has been helping me with the show for a while now and I don’t thank her enough. I pay her in hugs and eternal gratitude and she keeps showing up. There’s no one I’d rather have sitting next to me every month trying to keep this train running. Last Thursday she told a sweet story about a magical dog named Mariposa she met in Cuba. Mariposa’s magical power is talking larger dogs out of eating Kris. How she does this no one knows. But without Mariposa there would be no Kris and for that we should all send a puppy treat to Havana.

After Kris’s story we had a special treat. Her father Roy got up and told his own story. It was clear from Roy’s performance that storytelling runs in the family. His story of growing up near Cleveland and how a family secret was finally revealed to him was perfect. I could see Kris glowing as her dad got further and further into his story. It was a beautiful moment for me seeing a father and daughter connect over stories. I hope more people bring their parents to the show. Even if you never get on stage, there’s something powerful about sitting together in a little room listening to people share stories. If you’re anything like me son and me, you’ll end of telling each other stories on the car ride home.

Even though I let the show run long that night I still had to bump four tellers: Sepee, Colleen, Sara, and Marjorie. As much as I feel blessed to have so many people wanting to tell stories, it still hurts when I have to tell people we’re out of time.

Our next show is October 17. The theme is “Walking Away.” I’ll get the official invite out as soon as I can. In the meantime, I hope a bunch of you can make it to Maryanne’s show this Thursday in the same place at the same time. Her shows are filled with stories, music, poetry, and who knows what else. It’s one of the few shows that’s been running longer than FGS. Here’s the link for more info:

https://www.maryannemoorman.com/upcoming-live-events

See you next month!

Paul
freshgroundstories@gmail.com